Cultural Mistakes to Avoid in Colombia – Save Yourself from Awkward or Offensive Situations
Colombia is known for its warmth, beauty, and vibrant culture but just because locals are friendly doesn’t mean you can ignore cultural norms. Making the wrong move can turn a great interaction into an awkward or even offensive one.
Here’s a guide to help Passport Bros avoid the most common cultural missteps in Colombia.
1. Talking About the Country’s Past the Wrong Way
- Many foreigners bring up drugs, Pablo Escobar, or crime as “jokes.”
- This is a big no-no, it’s a painful part of history for many Colombians.
- If you want to talk about the country, focus on music, coffee, nature, or sports instead.
2. Ignoring Personal Appearance
- Colombians take pride in looking well-groomed, even for casual outings.
- Showing up in wrinkled clothes, gym shorts, or flip-flops outside the beach can make you look careless.
- Tip: Dress smart-casual when going out, even to a coffee shop.
3. Being Impatient with Time
- “Colombian time” is a thing, social events may start later than planned.
- Getting upset about punctuality can come off as rude.
- Instead, relax and adapt, use delays as a chance to enjoy the atmosphere.
4. Forgetting to Greet and Say Goodbye
- Not greeting people when you enter a room is considered impolite.
- In social settings, greet everyone individually with a handshake (men) or a cheek kiss (men to women, women to women).
- Always say “Gracias” and “Que estés bien” when leaving.
5. Assuming All Spanish is the Same
- Colombian Spanish is clear and polite, but slang varies by region.
- Learning local words like “Parcero/a” (friend) or “Chévere” (cool) can help you connect.
- Avoid using slang from other Latin countries unless you’re sure it’s understood.
6. Talking Loudly in Public
- Foreigners sometimes speak too loudly without realizing it.
- Colombians value friendliness but also appreciate a calm tone in public spaces like buses or restaurants.
7. Not Showing Respect to Elders and Family
- Family is central to Colombian life.
- Being disrespectful or overly casual with someone’s parents or grandparents can instantly hurt your chances socially or romantically.
- Always greet elders first and speak to them with usted (formal “you”) unless invited to use tú.
8. Skipping Local Food or Complaining About It
- Colombians are proud of their cuisine, arepas, bandeja paisa, sancocho.
- Saying “I don’t like Colombian food” can be taken personally.
- Even if it’s not your favorite, show enthusiasm and try everything at least once.
Final Takeaway
Colombians welcome foreigners with open arms, but respect and cultural awareness go a long way. Avoid these common mistakes, and you’ll find it much easier to make friends, build relationships, and enjoy your time in Colombia without stepping on any toes.
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